“One of the biggest red flags is when a man ignores what hurt you and turns the conversation against you” — Lady shares relationship adviceA lady has sparked conversation online after sharing what she believes is one of the biggest red flags in a relationship.In a video making the rounds online, she said it is a major warning sign when a woman tries to confront a man about something he did that hurt her, but instead of addressing the issue, he shifts the focus to her.According to her, the conversation suddenly becomes about her tone, the timing of the discussion, the way she spoke, or even the fact that she brought the issue up at all.She concluded by saying that healthy people focus on resolving the actual problem, while manipulative people focus on criticizing your reaction instead of taking responsibility for their actions.Credit: X/yourrelationshipbestie_