There was a time in my life when I had nothing that was truly mine. My confidence depended on someone else's approval. My happiness depended on someone else's presence. My financial survival depended on someone else's generosity. I thought that was love. I thought that was connection. But the day that person walked away I realized it was not love I had built it was dependency.
I had to rebuild myself from the ground up. It was painful. It was lonely. It was terrifying. But piece by piece I built something that nobody could take from me my own life. My own income. My own peace. My own identity. My own joy.
And the most beautiful thing happened when I became truly independent I stopped attracting people who wanted to control me and started attracting people who wanted to grow with me. Independence did not make me love less. It made me love better. ๐๐
There was a time in my life when I had nothing that was truly mine. My confidence depended on someone else's approval. My happiness depended on someone else's presence. My financial survival depended on someone else's generosity. I thought that was love. I thought that was connection. But the day that person walked away I realized it was not love I had built it was dependency.I had to rebuild myself from the ground up. It was painful. It was lonely. It was terrifying. But piece by piece I built something that nobody could take from me my own life. My own income. My own peace. My own identity. My own joy.And the most beautiful thing happened when I became truly independent I stopped attracting people who wanted to control me and started attracting people who wanted to grow with me. Independence did not make me love less. It made me love better. ๐๐
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