Stop borrowing someone else's life ๐ญ
You don't have to want what everyone around you wants. You don't have to chase the job, the relationship, the lifestyle, the "goals" just because it's what's trending in your circle.
The moment you start living for applause instead of alignment, you lose the one thing that actually makes your life yours your own voice in it.
Nobody else has to understand your pace. Nobody else has to approve of your path. You're not behind. You're not wrong. You're just different and different isn't a flaw, it's the whole point.
Do it your way. Even if it's slower. Even if it looks nothing like anyone else's version of "made it."
Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.