"Now, it now moves from parents to family. Change it. Next thing is the pressure on first borns. Let us breathe. I thank God for the kind of mother that I have. Let us breathe. Another pressure is pressure to succeed. Success means different things to different people. Success can just be me sleeping in my house every day, waking up and telling my children I love you. I might not want to work. The standard of success in Nigeria needs to be redefined. I feel like I'm the right person to say all of this. Special advice, you don't have to take it oh, you don't have to take it but the pressure that is in this twenty twenty six, I feel sorry, I feel sorry for people out there. May God not allow you have lived for 60 years and out of the 60 years you spent 50 years getting angry. Parents, society..."Nollywood actress, Ruth She has called on the younger generation to change societal pressure on firstborns and the definition of success.