“Saying I don’t use the word ‘friend’ loosely doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to know or support people” — Social media personality and Entrepreneur Diiadem reacts to netizens
Social media personality and Entrepreneur Diiadem has reacted to comments from netizens who question why she is often seen with people in Lagos despite previously saying she does not do “Lagos friendships.”
In a video shared online, Diiadem clarified that she knows and supports many people but does not necessarily consider everyone her friend.
She explained that people can attend each other’s events, celebrate together, gist, hang out and even buy each other’s asoebi without being close friends.
“I can genuinely like you, support you, root for you, celebrate you without you being part of my inner circle. Guess what? That doesn’t make that relationship fake,” she said.
Diiadem said she has become more intentional about the word “friend” as she has grown older, noting that she now distinguishes between acquaintances, colleagues, people she supports and her actual friends.
“You can be my girl and not be my friend. You can be someone I respect and not be my friend. You can even come to my birthday party, dance from morning till 2 a.m. and not still be my close friend,” she said.
She added that adulthood becomes easier when people stop forcing every good relationship into the friendship category.
Diiadem therefore urged netizens to allow her to interact with people without assuming that everyone she is seen with must be her friend.
“Allow me to interact with Lagos citizens in peace. It’s not that serious,” she added.
“Saying I don’t use the word ‘friend’ loosely doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to know or support people” — Social media personality and Entrepreneur Diiadem reacts to netizensSocial media personality and Entrepreneur Diiadem has reacted to comments from netizens who question why she is often seen with people in Lagos despite previously saying she does not do “Lagos friendships.”In a video shared online, Diiadem clarified that she knows and supports many people but does not necessarily consider everyone her friend.She explained that people can attend each other’s events, celebrate together, gist, hang out and even buy each other’s asoebi without being close friends.“I can genuinely like you, support you, root for you, celebrate you without you being part of my inner circle. Guess what? That doesn’t make that relationship fake,” she said.Diiadem said she has become more intentional about the word “friend” as she has grown older, noting that she now distinguishes between acquaintances, colleagues, people she supports and her actual friends.“You can be my girl and not be my friend. You can be someone I respect and not be my friend. You can even come to my birthday party, dance from morning till 2 a.m. and not still be my close friend,” she said.She added that adulthood becomes easier when people stop forcing every good relationship into the friendship category.Diiadem therefore urged netizens to allow her to interact with people without assuming that everyone she is seen with must be her friend.“Allow me to interact with Lagos citizens in peace. It’s not that serious,” she added.