A RELATIONSHIP OR AN ATMAre you in a relationship or you are just an ATM machine in a relationship? Are you in a committed relationship or he/she is temporarily committed to you because of what you provide? Are you guys real partners working assiduously to build each other up, or one of you is just busy leeching the other to build his or herself up? Alot of we young people run away from asking the hard questions today, and we usually end up with severe heartbreak tomorrow. Have you tried asking yourself why someone is in a relationship with you? Have you also asked the someone why they choose to be in a relationship with you? Have you gotten your answers and are the answers truly satisfying to you? Have you tried even for once, to withhold the tangible and the intangible benefits they enjoy from you, while in a relationship with you, just to see how they will react? Have you stopped providing for a while, just to see how they would act? Have you paused doing what you do for them for sometime, just to see their reactions? If you have not, please do! You never can tell if you are in a genuine relationship or just a mobile ATM machine powered by flesh and blood.If they have not been tested, they cannot be fully trusted. If they cannot be trusted, they should not be selected, if not, your precious time and resources would be wasted.Test before you trust, don't trust before you test - it might be too late. Be wise! Good morning 🌞🌄 By James Patrick #test#trust#relationship