Dating or marrying the right partner is not Uhuru! For the fact that you are with the right person doesn't mean they will make you happy all the time. Dating or marrying the right person doesn't shield you from relationship palaver. They may be the right person and still be unable to fulfil all your emotional, physical, financially and spiritual needs. Happiness is internal not external. Freedom comes from within, not from without. You are absolutely responsible for your own happiness - not your partner! It's your job to make yourself happy and feel good about yourself always. Stop blaming your spouse for your unhappy relationship and start taking responsibility or else you will remain unhappy in that relationship. Your happiness and sadness are in your hands. Good morning.By James Patrick