A woman has taken to social media to express her frustration over the responsibilities that come with motherhood, saying she sometimes misses the period when she did not have a child.

In a video, she said she misses the freedom she had when it was just her and she could go out and return whenever she wanted without having to think about a child.

She also spoke about the constant responsibilities, situations and conversations that come with raising a child, saying she sometimes longs for peace and quiet.

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Nollywood actress Juliet Cassie has advised married men to take greater responsibility for their wives and families.

In a video shared online, the actress claimed that married women are often forced into financial difficulties after marriage, especially women who were financially independent before getting married.

“Nobody borrows money more than married women. And I’m not even saying this from a place of insult. I’m saying it from a place of concern,” she said.

According to her, marriage and motherhood can affect a woman’s ability to earn and manage her finances, making it important for husbands to support their wives.

She urged men to make life easier for their wives by providing useful household equipment and sharing responsibilities instead of placing more pressure on them.

Cassie also criticised husbands who spend money on other women while neglecting their wives, describing such behaviour as financial abuse.

She said women may increasingly choose their careers over marriage when they see marriage as something that leaves them financially worse off.

“Do not blame them if they choose not to get married or have children when they see no benefits to it,” she added.

Actress Tayo Adeniyi has advised women, especially those in their late 30s and 40s, not to make marriage or having children the centre of their lives.

In a video shared online, the actress said women who have tried to get married or have children without success should not feel incomplete or pressured by society.

According to her, a woman can still live a happy and fulfilling life without a husband or children, stressing that no one should endure unhealthy situations just because they want to get married or become a parent.

She urged women not to settle for less or put up with unacceptable behaviour in pursuit of marriage, adding that if those things are meant to happen, they will happen naturally.

Tayo concluded by encouraging women to focus on living their lives, finding happiness within themselves and not allowing marriage or motherhood to define their worth.

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